He may might call her too frequently, not give her breathing room or be overly aggressive.How do you define what persistence is and what is pathetic? How many OLD messages do you send someone before giving up? If she flakes twice, and doesn't give you a counteroffer, you are done.Recently this girl I had been seeing went from really hot to cold on me, seemingly out of the blue.I've been reading online for advice on what to do, and came across articles like this suggest continuing to pursue, but doing so in a laid-back non pushy/confident manner.This is tricky as hell because humans are each so different and complex when it comes to sexual attraction that toeing this line is like walking a tight-rope where any slight movement can make you Owen-Hart yourself.
He also will spend hours of his time needlessly replaying the same negative thoughts in his head.The guy who gets results is aware of queues the girl gives. He knows when to move forward and when to back off. The girl may be telling him she doesn’t want him, but he can read in between the lines and sees she is testing him.He has put in the time to learn these signs and what they mean.The guy who isn’t getting the girl is generally less aware of signs.When the girl pushes him away, he feels bad and starts judging himself rather than reading what she actually means.